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Being A Mentor To A Younger Woman Or Girl

Have you ever considered that your experiences as a woman with a large chest could be of value to someone else? Well, there is nothing more beneficial than sharing these experiences with younger women or girls who might have started to see their breasts reach larger bra sizes in only a short time. The advice and feedback you give is by far one of the most worthwhile experiences you will encounter, and in the end you can become closer to this young woman or girl, even if they are not related to you.

As an older and more experienced who has dealt with the situation of watching your breasts grow with the onset of puberty, you can share your experiences with any younger females that you know. If the young female is a daughter or niece, and the larger breasts size is hereditary, then you are highly encouraged to become a mentor and role model to them.

However, in situations where the young female is the daughter of a close friend, first speak to the parents about what you are interested in doing, and how much your support would benefit the younger girl. I am sure they would welcome any advice, especially if the girl’s mother might be unsure on how to help her young daughter.

Breast size might seem like a strange reason to some people to become a mentor or support person to someone younger. But for the majority of women who watched their breast size double in proportion to the rest of their body, they are well aware of the feelings and difficulty that accompany these changes.

The first thought in an older woman’s mind might be, “How can I be a mentor or role model to someone else??” It is common to doubt our own abilities, but think how different your teenage years might have been, if you had someone around who not only understood what you were experiencing, but also had experienced the same “problem” themselves. The wealth of knowledge they would have provided to you!

While being a mentor and role model to younger women with large chests, your time together can be as informal as possible. Trips to the mall can be used as a training session on helping them choose blouses, bras, or tops. Another suggestion would be to treat them to lunch or dessert at a coffee shop. This would all depend on their age, but this private time can be used for chats to see how the young woman or girl is coping with her breast being larger than that of her peers.

You can use these situations to give advice, or even provide funny stories about situations when you had started developing. These sessions or time together should ultimately be used to let the younger female know that there is someone they can talk to and confide in – someone who knows what they might be experiencing.

Being a mentor or role model to younger women who also have large breasts can help decrease the amount of depression or low self esteem that some females might face in this situation. Just being an ear that listens and understands is enough for most people.

Another great thing about providing support to other females facing this same problem would be that it shows them how to be more comfortable with their bodies. This is especially true if you are a large-chested women who is comfortable with the size of her chest, and knows she is beautiful or the inside, as well as on the outside. From you they are able to learn that there is nothing wrong with the way they are made.

So just remember it does not have to be mentoring on a grand scale - Maybe just a shoulder to cry on, a friend to laugh with, a pat on the back or a hug when needed. We should not just sit around and have younger females experiencing this alone!

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