Being A Mentor To A Younger Woman Or Girl
Have you ever considered that your experiences as a woman
with a large chest could be of value to someone else? Well,
there is nothing more beneficial than sharing these experiences
with younger women or girls who might have started to see
their breasts reach larger bra sizes in only a short time.
The advice and feedback you give is by far one of the most
worthwhile experiences you will encounter, and in the end
you can become closer to this young woman or girl, even
if they are not related to you.
As an older and more experienced who has dealt with the
situation of watching your breasts grow with the onset of
puberty, you can share your experiences with any younger
females that you know. If the young female is a daughter
or niece, and the larger breasts size is hereditary, then
you are highly encouraged to become a mentor and role model
to them.
However, in situations where the young female is the daughter
of a close friend, first speak to the parents about what
you are interested in doing, and how much your support would
benefit the younger girl. I am sure they would welcome any
advice, especially if the girl’s mother might be unsure
on how to help her young daughter.
Breast size might seem like a strange reason to some people
to become a mentor or support person to someone younger.
But for the majority of women who watched their breast size
double in proportion to the rest of their body, they are
well aware of the feelings and difficulty that accompany
these changes.
The first thought in an older woman’s mind might be, “How
can I be a mentor or role model to someone else??” It is
common to doubt our own abilities, but think how different
your teenage years might have been, if you had someone around
who not only understood what you were experiencing, but
also had experienced the same “problem” themselves. The
wealth of knowledge they would have provided to you!
While being a mentor and role model to younger women with
large chests, your time together can be as informal as possible.
Trips to the mall can be used as a training session on helping
them choose blouses, bras, or tops. Another suggestion would
be to treat them to lunch or dessert at a coffee shop. This
would all depend on their age, but this private time can
be used for chats to see how the young woman or girl is
coping with her breast being larger than that of her peers.
You can use these situations to give advice, or even provide
funny stories about situations when you had started developing.
These sessions or time together should ultimately be used
to let the younger female know that there is someone they
can talk to and confide in – someone who knows what they
might be experiencing.
Being a mentor or role model to younger women who also
have large breasts can help decrease the amount of depression
or low self esteem that some females might face in this
situation. Just being an ear that listens and understands
is enough for most people.
Another great thing about providing support to other females
facing this same problem would be that it shows them how
to be more comfortable with their bodies. This is especially
true if you are a large-chested women who is comfortable
with the size of her chest, and knows she is beautiful or
the inside, as well as on the outside. From you they are
able to learn that there is nothing wrong with the way they
are made.
So just remember it does not have to be mentoring on a
grand scale - Maybe just a shoulder to cry on, a friend
to laugh with, a pat on the back or a hug when needed. We
should not just sit around and have younger females experiencing
this alone!